Thursday, May 1, 2008

#5 Attraction

Have you ever wonder what makes you like a person?
Because he looks like Tom Cruise? He loves shopping like you do? Or he knows how to repair your computer because you can't do it?

I'd say it all matters.
Looks play the very important FIRST role.
Then we have the birds of a feather flock together following opposite attracts or vice versa. It doesn't matter which come first but it'll occur somehow.

It had found that average faces are attractive faces. And yes, that's what attract me of my boyfriend. He look average.

It was opposite attract first in my case. He is one smart fellow. I am just average. His knowledge attracts me because I know none of it. It's something I feel that I can learn from him.
And as time goes by, we became bird of a feather flock together. I'm so lucky to say that my boyfriend loves shopping as much as I do. He never gave a grumpy face nor stand outside the shop when I shop, in fact, he gives me suggestion.

These are just some things that I'd say start our relationship and strengthen it.

So I believe there's no hard and fast theory as to how an attraction occurs. Birds of a feather do flock together but to maintain a relationship, you need to be opposite to maintain the attraction. Just like magnets.